This week will mostly consist of packing and getting used to getting up early. I think I have been the most excited about this year. I’ve already met one of my roommates and the other 2 seem super nice. I’ll be moving in on Friday and I’m really not looking forward to starting classes… At least all of my classes are design/art classes, I just really don’t want to get up early and go to class Mon-Fri. I’ll miss having Fridays off. But at least I’ll be hanging out with my roommates this year instead of just feeling awkward in my own dorm. Did I mention I’m in the same exact dorm & room as last year? What are the odds of that? I really hope I’ll make a lot more friends and maybe my first boyfriend this year.
I know a lot of you will just say that I don’t need a guy but I’m 21 now and I just want to know what it’s like to go on a date and have a guy like me. It seems like every blogger that I look up to or enjoy reading their blog, they are all married or have a serious boyfriend. It always make me kinda sad when I see that and I feel like the only single blogger. I know there are probably a lot of single bloggers but I’ve just always felt alone even in real life. I’ve never been kissed, never dance with a guy, never been asked out, or ever gotten close to getting a boyfriend. I know it’s really not that big of a deal but I think about it way too much.
I’ve also decided on what my blog schedule will be like now that school has started. I’m going to blog every Tuesday & Thursday at 8:30am eastern time. If after a month or so I feel like I have a little more time then it will change to Monday, Wednesday, & Friday.
My 20 after 21 post will go up on Thursday along with my Current Crush. 🙂
I’m a single blogger! I know it’s tough, but honestly you are so young! Use this time to explore, have fun, find yourself. Guys come and go, but the friendships you make in college last a lifetime! I was also a late bloomer, I thought about it a lot, but then I just let things go, had a great time in college, and things with guys started to turn around. It just kind of happens, all of a sudden, and then you don’t worry about it so much. These are the best years of your life so enjoy them!!
Very true! Thank you! 🙂
You’re a late bloomer when it comes to dating, I was too! Trust me, it will come. And when it does, watch out! Have you met anyone recently you’d be interested in?? Do a lot of people at your school date?
Carly
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Thank you! I don’t really know anybody I’m interested in. I don’t talk to many guys and I’m too quiet to go up to them.
Hi Emily, honestly don’t rush or think you need someone right now. I just came out from a pretty long relationship and I really appreciate the fact that I’m not with them right now, even if they made me happy. Being with someone at such a young age sometimes makes you lose focus of what you want in life, and it makes sacrifice what you wouldn’t normally sacrifice if you were single. Let the right person appear naturally and in the mean time focus on the things that make you happy. They will respect you so much more for all you have accomplished in your life instead of wasting time with different guys. I’m single right now, so you’re not alone. Hahah. <3 Love you! 🙂
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Trust me, you’re not the only one. I’m 33 and have never really dated either. Not that I’m awkward or weird or creepy – I have plenty of guy friends, just no one who ever thinks I’m special. Sometimes that bothers me and other times I try to remember that God know what He’s doing with my life and will bring the right guy along when it’s time for that. Meanwhile, I just embrace life and try to experience it to the fullest!
Thank you!!!!!
Finally another blogger who will admit that it’s lonely out there sometimes in this jungle haha. I love all my blogger friends, don’t get me wrong but it’s tough to read about their fantastical dates, and flowersand romances when there snot so much as a hint of a male romance in your life. I feel ya sister!
Cheers to finding boys this year!
dont worry!! your time will come 🙂 and in my experience, meeting guys in college was not necessarily all its cracked up to be! just continue being your lovely self and the guy for you will come along 🙂 keep your head up!
xo Britta
hey girl! i just found your adorable blog. first off that is super weird youre in the same dorm room! how crazy, but have a blast at school & enjoy it. it goes by SO fast! second, your time will come with boys. i feel like whenever you stop thinking about having a boyfriend & just live your life one will pop up. youre a beautiful girl so I know you’ll have the phone ringing non stop soon! happy friday love, new follower btw xo